Can a friend's enemy be a friend?

I don’t know where to start, and I don’t know if writing this article is the right choice. At the beginning, we were younger than younger, and it was normal to make mistakes. Moreover, there were a few hatreds in the teenage years that were really deep hatred. It turns from sadness to pain, and the most common and the easiest to deepen is the pain caused by broken love.

It was about a few friends of mine. At that time, my best friend Wang Jian dropped out of school for some reason. When the break expired, he was forced to transfer to another school in another place. He was originally a sports student. Later, I learned art like me. The school he transferred to was basically an art school. The story started from there. He said that he was assigned to her class. Her name was Jiang Ping. She should be a local student. Art artists didn't like to learn well, but it seems that Jiang Ping was doing well at that time. While learning and playing, the two developed a good impression of each other, so they began to fall in love.

Later, Jiang Ping and his classmates transferred to a school near me. Because Wang Jian and I were good friends, it was a complete matter to introduce me to them. After constant contact and recognition, I feel that Jiang Ping and the others are all Nice girls, although they have their own personalities, they are sincere to people, especially to me. Jiang Ping knows the relationship between Wang Jian and I, plus I can speak well, so it is expected that we will become good friends with each other. , It is also common to make appointments to go out to eat and go shopping from time to time. Everyone spent a long time happily.

Everything seems so beautiful, but things are often like this. Behind the beauty is always a crisis. Their relationship broke down. As for the reason for the breakdown, I won't give any explanation. For the relationship between the two people, it is difficult for a third party to help. Solved, after understanding the situation, I knew that they could not get back together again, and under this environment, my situation was quite awkward. One side was my lifelong good friend Wang Jian, and the other side treated me very well. I don’t want to give up the friendship.

I thought that the two could still be friends after breaking up, but in fact the conflict between the two is very sharp.The sisters around Jiang Ping also joined Jiang Ping’s camp and helped criticize Wang Jian together, but I did not join any camp like they did. , After all, both sides are friends. I still maintain close contact with both sides, and no matter which side it is, there is no contradiction between them. There is any discord between them. Wang Jian is the same as before, no matter it is. He and his family have left me a great touch, Jiang Ping is no exception, especially during my art exam.

For art students, exams are one of the most laborious tasks. In order to get to the school you want, it is common to travel around. Because of the setting of the test center, I remember that I switched to several provinces. I forgot which school exam it was. It was like this at the time. After I finished the exam in Beijing today, I had to go to another school in Shijiazhuang the next day. I still remember that the day was very tight and it was evening after the exam. I almost missed the high-speed train from Beijing to Shijiazhuang, and it was a temporary ticket. There are no seats. The bumps along the way can be imagined. Young people provide energy and ideals provide power. Although tired, it is worth fighting. It is very late in Shijiazhuang, but At that time, they would be entertained by Jiang Ping and others. At that time, they were also taking the exam in Shijiazhuang. Because they went early, they found a house to live in. However, when I went so late, the house was full of art candidates, so I decided to go there. I stayed in a nearby Internet cafe for one night. Although it is winter and there is no heating in the Internet cafe, this is also a common occurrence during the exam. It has been too long. I forgot whether I lived in the Internet cafe or not, but there is one thing I can't forget. , One night, Jiang Ping asked me to live with them. I know their environment. The three girls only have one bed. They were already very crowded. In addition, I basically can't move because of the inconvenience of male and female gender and big men. Of course I refused to start from a philosophical point of view, but they repeatedly asked for it. I also knew that this was not Jiang Ping’s idea alone. The three sisters must have discussed it in advance, so in the end I squeezed them into a bed. It was really warm that night. It's so down-to-earth. In the next few days, Jiang Ping and the others also helped me a lot, because they didn’t have exams in those few days, so they only prepared for the exams for me. Every time I went back, they would prepare meals, and I was only responsible for eating. It was very warm and caring with the exam, so I have always remembered very deeply.

Later, Wang Jian went to work in offshore oil, and Jiang Ping and I were admitted to our own schools. There were not many opportunities to meet each other. Of course, no matter what the situation was, I couldn’t shake my friends and Wang Jian’s. Relationship, but Jiang Ping has a problem. Is it because the two people are gradually estranged, as Cai Shi said, because the other party has found someone to replace, or because the relationship between Wang Jian and I made her make a difference with the previous Different choices. Among the three sisters, Huanhuan still keeps a small amount of contact with me, while Jiang Ping and Meilin have completely lost contact with me.

In the end, Wang Jian and Jiang Ping are enemies. I think the current situation is just that we were young and vigorous at the beginning. This may be just a small past in our lives, and as a friend of both sides, I really don’t want to favor any. One side, for me, both sides have brought me a lot of touch, but from a friend's point of view, both sides are my contradictory objects. I really want to have a parallel space so that the relationship between our three parties can be two by two. Independence, but facts do not allow it. In any case, I didn't want to hurt any party, and now I don't want to hurt any party. Now I understand the purpose of writing this memory. I hope that my friends who are far away from me have a safe journey, and those who stay I will always love you.

Can a friend's enemy be a friend?
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